Background, Me and DH have been married for 2 years, together for 5. DH is divorced but hasn't disclosed much of his past as he doesn't like to talk about it. I've asked questions in the past and got different answers e.g how long before we started talking was he divorced, intially he said a few years but after we got married i found out this was untrue. He had only been divorced a few months. Hes also had quite a few girlfriends which again he doesn't tell me anything about. I dont want to know much but the fact he keeps lying about his past makes me curious about what hes trying to hide. He also has a tendency to lie about little things which makes me even more paranoid. Apart from that he is an amazing husband and father.
As i was tidying up today i found some old mobile phones that i had no idea existed. I had a look through one and found engagement videos (from another ex) and some messages to his ex wife. Now i feel bad about snooping and want to be honest and tell him. I know i was unreasonable for snooping but should I tell him or pretend it didnt happen?