I'm in a bit of a mess with a house purchase and no idea what to do.
We are buying a house and I've been really unhappy with the solicitors we have appointed. Here are some of the errors that have been made:
- paperwork sent, lots of mistakes in it. No apologies made.
- they asked for our marriage certificate. claimed to have never received it - when we pointed out that this had been sent via recorded mail and we had a signature proving it had been received, they said they had lost it. A few days later, it turned up 'in a pile of papers'. They said they would send this back to us - we've received nothing several weeks later.
- we were promised that we would have one designated member of staff (conveyancing assistant) - we've had 4 and communication between seems poor. No logs of phone calls made, no messages passed on.
- enquiries not chased until we have requested these - claim to have called us with updates - no calls made.
- we indicated a projected deadline - they agreed to this. a few weeks later they claimed never to have received this and 'the office is closed that day anyway'. No apology.
I have telephoned a few times and voiced my unhappiness - I admit that I have been frustrated and my tone has not been friendly. However, I have never raised my voice or used inappropriate language.
We sent an e-mail of complaint and the response from the manager was that they are working hard on this, they cannot always promise to meet client's unrealistic expectations and that I personally have been aggressive towards staff who are trying to help. She went onto say that if there is any further aggressive behaviour from me they will dis-instruct their company from this case
I can't prove that I wasn't aggressive but I think this is very unfair and another example of them not taking responsibility for their actions.
What's the best thing to do? Do I apologise? Drop it and stop calling? I just want things to get done and I know they have more power in this situation. What would you do?
Thank you.