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To think I'm not invited?

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LittleMermaidRose · 02/08/2018 10:59

My friend of 6 years is getting married next June. We don't see each other very often but when we do it's always great, lots of laughs, heart to hearts etc.

Over the last year she's made a couple insensitive comments/done a few things (nothing too major that would make me fall out with her) but that have made me feel like perhaps she doesn't value me as a friend as much as do her.

Last time I seen her was February. We've chatted via the occasional email since then but she's always been too busy to meet up when I've asked her.

She told me all about her wedding plans, how the venue (she's booked out a hotel) is 2 hours away, how much it's going to cost for the 3 night hotel stay etc.

She's never mentioned the wedding since February & now I'm wondering if I'm even invited to the wedding?? Maybe I'm just being paranoid but I thought that she would have maybe sent out "save the date" cards to let people know about the hotel/travel situation.

Do you think maybe I'm not invited? Or is it too early for invites?

OP posts:
Moneypenny007 · 02/08/2018 16:38

In Ireland you get 6-8 weeks notice!!!

MyDirtyLittleSecret · 02/08/2018 17:54

Happygoldfinch - boiled down to take out all the purple prose you mean: invitations were limited and you had to do what millions of other couples do for their weddings and restrict your guestlist to match your budget?

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