To be upset over negative HPT????

[Flossy04]

Just wondering if anyone goes through the same thing, always had trouble settling with contraception however met my soul mate last year and we have an amazing relationship, now living together and apart from slight trouble with his Ex everything between us is amazing!!....

However...

Ever since I was young all I wanted was to be a mother, I took precautions in past relationships for good reasons as I wasn’t ready, but lately it’s all I ever think about! Had trouble with the mire a this year so had to come out and now on the mini pill

My partner already has a DC and we discussed we would love to have our own children but want to get a house first which we know is the right decision, but had a scare after starting pill and so had to do a couple HPT’s and all come out Negative.

I know he isn’t ready for a bother SC yet but I get so down and depressed every time I see that single line and just feel I’m being unreasonable to be upset about it around him

Anyone been through something similar

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I think it’s normal. You’re in a happy relationship and at a good point in your life. When we were ttc that single line was most lonely thing ever. You need to talk to your partner and make a definite plan your comfortable with.

but I get so down and depressed every time I see that single line

I don’t understand this comment, it sounds like you’ve taken hpt a lot more than just a couple of times....
You’ve know your partner for 18 months at the absolute most- it’s not really an ideal time to fall pregnant (I know a lot of people do but it’s still very much the honeymoon phase)
Speak to your partner about how you feel and stop hoping for a contraceptive failure to give you what you want.
It is lovely that you’ve found someone you want to start a family with but you have plenty of time for kids. I also think the desire to have children of your own can be significantly increased when a partner has children with someone else.....

@mari50 I’ve known Oh since we were 15 as we used to be very close friends then life happened and haven’t spoken since we were 18 and got back in contact last year

I know wanting a contraception failure is stupid this is my point, this is why I want to know if IBU to be upset about it, also only just got back on track with my contraception after coil comming out I. March and then missed pills etc x

Also had to take 2 tests 3 weeks apart at the clinic after coil dislodged and then another at the clinic a month after taking the pill as doctor advised 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️