I have a re-occurring argument every few months with my husband who thinks the odd joint is acceptable. In our twenties -before we had children we used to smoke a bit once in a while at beach parties and festivals but I said once we settle down it needs to stop -which it did for me, not him even tho he agreed. I've not smoked since before we got married 7 years ago. Where we live is super chilled so plenty of people use it recreationally. I don't have a problem with it and actually think it's far less harmful and dangerous than alcohol -but we have 3 small children and I just don't want him having anything to do with it. These odd occasions are when he's seen this old surf dude we know that's given him a bit and it's been smoked very late at night when kids in bed and he's taken a walk . He says I'm a hypocrite as I used to smoke it, I say things change when you have children and responsibilities. He's a great Dad who works really hard and doesn't go out drinking very often just special occasions , I have friends who's partners are out on the razz every weekend -I would hate that! So do I need to cut him some slack and let him chill with this vice-or stick to my guns ? I find it hard to argue with him about it as I'd take a stoned person over a drunk any day -but it's the principle ! And the law
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