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to ask you to not feed my dog

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Batmanwearspants · 29/07/2018 19:28

My dog is a lovely thing, but being a labrador he's got a habit of eating anything he can find. Hes an absolute scrounger for food, and though I've trained him not to beg with me, around others he will definitely do it if he can.

On our walks every morning I always encounter another dog walker who just wants to give him one biscuit or two. Most of the time they won't even ask, they'll just toss him one when they're feeding theirs. Others when they ask and I say quite cheerfully "Oh I'd rather you didn't", I'm met with a chorus of "Oh but its only one" and more pushiness. The moment he's had food from someone else he's a complete traitor, and when I try and call him away he seems to lose the ability to hear.

Am I wrong in thinking its against dog walking ettiquette to feed strange dogs. How do they know he doesn't have an allergy, or is sensitive to certain foods? And why do people seem so annoyed when they do say no.

I'm going to get him a bright yellow jacket which says "Do not feed me".

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toolonglurking · 30/07/2018 16:57

I absolutely never give other people's dogs food, and I get really annoyed when people try to feed my greedy labrador.
Get him the jacket, but I imagine people will keep doing it anyway!

DestinationReached · 30/07/2018 17:01

We used to live next to a public footpath. Our elderly labrador would lie next to the fence and our neighbour threw over one cooked sausage every day. She did it one day and then carried on after that, not always at the same time but she did it every day.

sugarPlumFairly · 30/07/2018 17:05

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geekone · 30/07/2018 17:09

I ask but only when I am trying to give my dog a treat to keep him in line lol. If they say no i don’t.

Many people have fed my puppy too. I don’t mind really.

Thatssomebadhatharry · 30/07/2018 17:12

Just day he is gluten intolerant.

Thatssomebadhatharry · 30/07/2018 17:12

Say

Katinkka · 30/07/2018 17:12

Round here people often ask first but sometimes they don’t. I don’t care either way really. I always ask first though.

TooMuchGreys · 30/07/2018 17:18

@sugarplum yes they can! Our lab has awful food sensitivities, we can’t give her anything other than her “hypoallergenic” food because she’ll have explosive diarrhea otherwise 🤢 so it really annoys me when other dog owners feed her!

LoveIsNotInTheAir · 30/07/2018 17:19

My dog has a condition that worsens if she eats wheat so she is on a special diet. Who feeds a dog that isn’t theirs anyway without asking first?!

Jaxhog · 30/07/2018 17:23

Makes no sense!

We used to have a neighbour who'd leave her cats to eat dry cat food in their garage. when she went on holiday One of our cats has a weight problem because he would eat all their food (along with all the other neighbourhood cats.)

Some people are just thoughtless.

fourquenelles · 30/07/2018 17:24

Dogs have much more delicate stomachs than even some dog owners realise.

It's a sad reflection of the times that I make sure my dogs do not drink the water out of a plastic bowl with WOOF written on the side that a house has outside on my regular walk. It is a lovely, kind thought I hope but there is always the very slim chance that it is the opposite and could be harmful. Sad

IDontEatFriedTurtle · 30/07/2018 17:35

IME greedy labradors just appear in my picnic, I certainly never offer them food.

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