LittleMissMarker, the thing which really pisses me off about my copy of Lolita is that all that subtlety is totally destroyed by the cover picture (a soft-focus picture from the second movie) and text, which says:
'The greatest novel of rapture in modern fiction. Witty, sensuous and profound, Nabakov's story of a middle-aged college professor's passion for a honey-skinned pubescent girl is one of the most evocative depictions of unrequited love in the language.'
I mean.. what the fuck? How much harder does it get to read all the unreliable narrator and tiny detail aspects of the text, when you've got this absolute bilge framing it? You're led to expect this is some sexy controversial love story. Don't even get me started on:
'Passion' being used to describe sexual obsession and eventually a sexual relationship where one party is legally unable to consent, plus is absolutely dependent on the other (and fears being sent to an orphanage or boarding school)?
Lolita's description being purely physical. Because that's all she is. Humbert's manages to mention he's a college professor (which I don't think is even accurate, at first: I thought he was a silent partner in a perfume company, recently institutionalised and trying to write a book when he meets her).
'Unrequited love'? Fuck off! See 'passion'. Who even wrote this? Did they read the book?
I'm not surprised Lolita pisses people off, in this context, and gets the reputation of being a one-note indulgence of male fantasy. If I hadn't read the book, I'd hate it from this description. Even when I did, it took me a couple of rereads to understand how absolutely crap this summary is.
[disclaimer: I do hate all lazy book jackets which don't accurately depict the book. But this is a particularly bad example]