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To take DS to GP for eating headphone cables

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Pardalis · 28/07/2018 23:29

His headphones used for gaming have been getting ropey looking. Always put it down to the fact he doesn't look after them - dropped on the floor, twisted, chair trapping them. I have always said that if they break due to misuse then I wasn't going to replace.
I noticed tonight how bad they were. Due to the long cord it wasn't always obvious.
Turns out he's eaten them. In places the whole of the black plastic covering has gone. Some of the inner and even the copper. And some weird fibre stuff.
He's said he swallowed it.
I got really upset, told him that he shouldn't eat it and why. He got upset in return and obviously headphones have been taken away.

My first instinct is to book a GP appointment to find out whether eating that has harmed him.

He's fine at the moment. Am I overreacting?

OP posts:
LakieLady · 29/07/2018 16:19

I was a chewer. I used to chew the pointed end of my school tie, my hair, pencils, anything really.

I grew out of it, hopefully your DS will, OP.

feelingonhedge · 29/07/2018 18:57

I’m sure he’ll be fine, my Son (7) has eaten not only his own headphones but a few of mine also Hmm
Bought him a sensory chew thing to go round his neck and he ate that too Grin

BoneyBackJefferson · 29/07/2018 19:17

As a teacher I can safely say that at least 50% of the pupils that come through the school doors in the morning are chewing their headphone wires.

Pardalis · 29/07/2018 20:31

But do they actually eat the pieces?!! Confused

I've talked to him today. Let him know that he's got something safe (ish) to chew.

Currently distracting him with a lolly before the pendants etc arrive. Hope his teeth can cope for a few days!! 😂😂😂

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smurfy2015 · 29/07/2018 20:41

@WellThisIsShit yes lol the first thing when I got home each day my mum used to send me to the bathroom to clean them. I had one of those timers which she used to set for me to clean for 5 mins and I actually did it, I would then eat the toothpaste straight from the tube to reward myself. I went thru 3-4 big tubes a week, if got my hands on it.

The teacher thought it was me all along re crayons but colouring time was just before hometime and I got away quickly quite a bit but she was horrified to see me happily eating handfuls of crayons which had come from the big crayon box which all the class put hands in and out off.

Was moved to colouring pencils, that wasn't much better as mine had to be kept separate from everyone else, they were easily identifiable anyhow as sharpened from the top down and eaten till both ends met by me, I had little splinters removed from my inner lips esp lower one quite a few times it didn't deter me either, A new pack of pencils lasted on average 2-3 days and wouldn't be replaced for 2 weeks.

Markers - that was even worse for my teeth, I liked the "taste of the colours", if that makes sense and so used to put the nib of the pen in my mouth and suck it till the colour barely worked, then put some vinegar down the barrel of it from the other end and suck at it as vinegar prolonged the colours slightly.

Finally, I was taken away from the colouring and art sessions altogether as it wasn't working for the school from their viewpoint.

I also had a liking for bars of soap and washing up liquid (pears soap, the original recipe was lovely, imperial leather but my fave was anti disinfectang soap) I would even eat the soap from the girls toilets at school, and fairy liquid, I was always keen when shopping with mam that she would get different flavours of Fairy for me, she would only buy the original one to try deter me

Mam used to hide bottles of disinfectant from me, not cos I would drink them but because I used them literally on myself. If I got my hands on one, I could use a litre easily and more if I could lay my hands on it. Half of it was tipped in a bath for myself which I lay and soaked in Dettol basically, then I got out and used Dettol as a body lotion and the other half of the bottle with that.

Looking back I also ate toilet roll, kitchen roll, buttercups and daisies, dock leaves, grass. I was quite a weird kid in some ways

Can I give you a bit of reassurance OP that despite all this, I was between 5-8 years old when my "habit" kicked off. It carried on daily till I was nearly turning 9, Over 35 years I don’t have any interest or craving for any of these items aforementioned but have a combo of comfort food which has turned some people around me but is instant comfort. I have found my local hospital has it on their daily menus.

No stress, trauma or major life event related bar the passing of my dad 4 months before I turned 8 but as this was there before so I wouldn't link it together

I had a very stable and happy childhood even if I was/am weird in other areas of life. I use weird as a phrase that covers all my experiences, tastes and happenings in my life that is not the typical pattern amongst my friends.

I have been told by several friends who are on the spectrum that they can see a lot of traits esp over the number of years of friendships and fully believe I'm on it somewhere. It doesn't hinder me and I have never pursued a diagnosis.

It all stopped for me about 4 months before I turned 9 and the urge to eat all this went away as fast as it had arrived when I was 5, except as a 5-year-old I couldn't articulate that it was an uncontrollable urge constantly to eat the "contraband"

I basically grew out of the habit/phase in the end,

So keep an eye on wires, wrap electricians tape and may need to do a couple of layers of tape in case of seepage.so the liquid doesn't go thru to wires.

if you know of a particular flavour he hates and can make into a spray with water or alcohol base like vodka to hold the taste and spray on tape when it's covering the wires,

I didn’t even bite my nails as a child or adult, I do sometimes pick the nail with another nail.

Watch and wait, if he develops tummy pain after a session wearing headphones, check against your pre-taken photos to assess the damage or are the same as they were at X date (in the past), then they are right now (take new picky) deal with child with pain and keep an eye open just in case.

FatToni · 29/07/2018 20:43

Both of my older dc are chewers.

Mainly the cuffs or necklines of their clothes (we've had quite a few holes) but plenty of other soft furnishing things over the years.

DianaPrincessOfThemyscira · 30/07/2018 13:56

My point was that the whole cable has been chewed to the copper and that this hasn’t been noticed over a period of time.

Yay I’m a Perfect Parent for being able to notice a cable is being stripped before it gets to the point where the whole thing is down to the copper Confused.

Allthewaves · 30/07/2018 14:36

My boy with hfa asd often ears his way through earphone cables. We have now stuck then in a rubber pipe which we change

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