Morning ladies and gents! Need an outsiders point of view on something that happened again yesterday (happened many times before too) if I can please?
Let me start by saying I love my husband whole heartedly without a shadow of a doubt. We have been together 4 years and have 2 DDs together.
My problem is, whenever we argue about something small that could be sorted out betwern ourselves, he runs to his mum behind my back to tell her whats going on and in the heat of the moment will tell her ever little detail about us and whats going on. Now he is 31 and we literally never see his mum, She has never been bothered about coming to see her grand children unless its an hour at birthdays or christmas. She is always with her other grandchildren and never has time for ours, yet comes running if she smells any bit of bother between me and DH so she can put her 5 pence worth in. AIBU to be so annoyed that once again he has run to his mum about stuff that should stay between him and me? I never open up to my family or friends about silly stuff so I get annoyed when he does this as it feels like he goes behind my back to a woman who ignores her own grandchildren. Sorry for the rant, just wondering if I'm the one who's in the wrong but Im too wound up to see it! I should also add my husband lived on the streets for 3 months a few years ago after a failed relationship as his mum told him not to go knocking on her door if it didn't turn out well, so if she didn't want to know and help him then when he was at rock bottom, why does she since he got married to me?xx