Had a small emergency with DM this morning so had to leave baby DS with DP. I'm always anxious when I leave them alone as DP has a regular tendency to fall asleep out of the blue, he works irregular shifts including nights so its not unusual for him to nod off out the blue and when he does there is no waking him.
We have an agreement (or are supposed to have) that when he looks after DS he is to keep his phone on loud so I can get hold of him for this specific reason.
An hour after I leave he sends me a jumbled text that makes little sense so I call him straight back thinking he's half asleep, no answer.
I text a few times and keep trying to call, no response.
Eventually I phone a neighbour and ask him to pop round and make sure all is well, if DP is awake etc.
Neighbour goes round and knocks on, DP answers and comes on the phone. I tell him I've had to leave DM and make my way home and ask why he wasn't answering the phone, he forgot to put it on loud he says. I ask what was with the incoherent text and he says sorry he was distracted and playing his Xbox.
Now his phone is on silent constantly and always has been but we formed an agreement that when he has DS it would not be.
I'm really peed off and he can't understand why that's the case, its no big deal he says.
Aibu to expect an open line of communication when he has the baby, given his tendency to fall asleep, and be pissed off that despite us reaffirming the agreement before I left this morning he doesn't bother to do so?