We've had careers, and families, and are perhaps not sought after as employees as we were once, but AIBU to think that we deserve a bit more than being expected to look after senile in laws and young children, free of charge, for very little in the way of thanks or respect. Or to volunteer for organisations that take take take and give back as little as possible. I would like to do something useful, but have no intention of becoming a useful idiot. How do other people feel?