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3 year old tanning

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MiddleClassProblem · 19/07/2018 18:08

Posting for traffic and advice. All I can find on the internet is information telling you how bad tanning is for kids etc but nowhere has advice for kids that have anything other than white ethnicity that just bloody tan!

DD, last year, same sun cream, same application routine, no tan. This year her skin seems to have changed and is tanning despite extra applications.

I have a similar issue myself but until now her skin seemed more like my husband’s white skin but this year seems to be reacting more like mine.

Example, I was recently told off by a white friend for my tan lines I had got telling me it’s skin damage. I got them by walking to the shop, out the house for 30 mins so probably 20 mins possible sun exposure, but occasionally in the shade because I’m walking in roads with a few turns, factor 30 on thick (I let it soak it same for with DD).

I can’t find anywhere that adivices on this kind of skin and for me I’ve been more relaxed in the past but now DD is getting it I really want to protect her more.

Is there a special type of sun cream? What do others do? She wears tshirts or rash vests in the pool too, sun creamed everywhere including underneath where maybe covered, at least 15 mins before going outside. She has factor 50 and I reapply around every 1.5hrs atm or once dry post pool. I could try to up it but it’s a bit of a battle anyway.

I just feel like everywhere is saying tending kids is wrong and you’re an ignorant, lazy parent if you let it happen but nowhere seems to address the ones that it’s hard to stop tanning.

Honestly, any tips, please help!

OP posts:
PumpkinPie2016 · 20/07/2018 07:13

I am white and fair skinned as is my son. I always put factor 50 on him and ensure he wears a hat in the sun.

He has a very slight tan at the moment because we have had such nice weather and he has played out loads! He has never, ever burnt (not even come close).

I don't see that slight tanning is a problem and I don't think it can be avoided really.

JellyBears · 20/07/2018 09:13

Use factor 50, put her in all in one wetsuits for the pool/beach. Also some skin types naturally tan olive skin for example.

Stephenstickinsect · 20/07/2018 10:23

This thread is crazy

BarbarianMum · 20/07/2018 10:32

People with olive skin tan easily. It's nature's form of skin protection for caucasians from warm climates. I use shade, clothing and suncream (Factor 30 not 50) to protect my kids from the worst of the sun but they tan and so do I. Forget the "no tan is a good tan" bollocks - maybe for our creamy skinned/red haired brethren. I think the importance of vitamin D for general health is vastly underrated and as more is known about it this will be recognised.

BarbarianMum · 20/07/2018 10:34

And YY I got all the "oo has somebody been sunbathing" rubbish at nursery too. Some people forget white skin also comes in different shades.

cpayne351 · 20/07/2018 13:55

Tanning is normal. My son is 4 and has always tanned in the sun, we put factor 30 on usually but have been doing factor 50 for the beach and when its 25c+. He has never burnt. Your friend sounds really annoying and up her own arse.

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