watching Hannah Gadsby's amazing 'Nanette', one thing that jumped out at me was her recounting receiving a facebook letter telling her that she should transition 'for the sake of her community'.
who cares if she knows she's female and has no problem with her sex?
she's got short hair and wears trousers and no make up.
people think this means she should pretend to be a man.
some people really can't bear any untidiness. Not conforming to gender stereotypes? pretend to be the opposite sex! that way everyone is conforming again!