Back story, my ex left when ds was 8 months old, I've posted before about it. He said his feelings started to change for me when ds was a month old but nothing to do with ds arriving! He was our first! I didn't want to split up, yes we were both very stressed, sleep deprived as most new parents are but I didn't feel things were that bad!
Anyway, ex has been staying for a while after dropping off ds, just playing in the garden with us, this has been going on for a couple of months now especially since the weather has been so nice. I'm starting to feel that this isn't good for me as I'm not over him even though it's been 11 months now! I feel like I need to tell him that I've been enjoying our time together too much and that I need to create some distance between us! This would not effect his access to his son just the time we are around each other!