So we're separating and I'm trying to get it all sorted ASAP so my girls aren't going to have to deal with it when they start new year at school and he's being a general pita over it.
Not dealing with things, so I have to on top of all the stuff I have to do.
Complaining about how it may affect him despite him initiating the break up (due to lack of sex apparently and to be fair I'm happy we're separating).
I keep saying that it'll be my house and his house but he keeps saying "well you can stay here"
It is important to me to have my daughters around but I have always said he's a great father and equal access would happen and yet he keeps saying that cos of my illnesses\disabilities I won't want them around much in the future - basically that I won't be able to cope.
I just want it done cos its making me angry towards him and I don't want to co-parent badly with him in the future.