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driverdontstopatall93 · 17/07/2018 14:51

3 years ago August caught my ex cheating with multiple women. I left and took my one year old daughter and had to start completely from scratch has been the hardest time ever but I’m ok now.
Ex moved in main ow straight away made my life pretty much hell (stole my savings and spent it together) everybody told me well they must be in love , my child needs to be around her she’s not going anywhere etc etc. Really struggled with this but the past year just let it go and accepted it.
Weekend just gone it all comes out he’s now left her to be with another woman and now my daughter has to go through it all again. I just feel sad all this drama for what ? Ergh.
I’m also sympathetic towards the ow even though she knew about us because she fell for the shit he spouts. So shit situation all round really.

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driverdontstopatall93 · 17/07/2018 17:16

No then? 🚶🏽‍♂️

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PinkBalloonsAndCherryCoke · 17/07/2018 17:19

He sounds like a cheating arsehole! You're far better off without him! Thanks

Pickleypickles · 17/07/2018 17:19

Its shit OP and maybe you could talk to him about not introducing new OW straight away as it's confusing for DD and she wants to see him not his flavour of the month but ultimately it is his choice I think if and when he introduces her.

driverdontstopatall93 · 17/07/2018 17:24

Apparently my daughter has been around her already and they are taking her out for her birthday together. I’m definitely better off he’s one of those no empathy people

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comedycentral · 17/07/2018 17:26

It's sad that your daughter has such a poor example for a Father! He sounds awful and you are well shot of him. Does she have any other male role models?

driverdontstopatall93 · 17/07/2018 17:32

Yes my dad and brother are great. I just feel sad that it’s just going to be one drama after another now every couple of years a new other woman . Interestingly he seems to be following the same pattern of his own dad. I’d literally just come to terms with the other woman and accepted it all

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