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To consider this house with no family bathroom?

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Erisbo · 16/07/2018 13:26

We have two dds, currently in year 4 and year 1.

We need to move house in the near future, as while both our dds are currently at a lovely primary school, our catchment secondary school that every child on our current street gets allocated has a very bad reputation and is currently rated inadequate.

We're considering one house, a stone's throw from the secondary we'd love our dds to go to, that has been on the market for quite a while. The reason it's been so hard to sell is, we suspect, because the layout of bedrooms and bathrooms upstairs is rather odd.

The crux of the issue is that there is no family bathroom, and the bedrooms/bathrooms are very unequally sized.

On the top floor, there is:
- A massive master bedroom (1), with a huge ensuite (two sinks, a loo, bath, huge shower)
- A big bedroom (2) with an ensuite (bath with shower attachment, loo, sink)
- A small to medium sized bedroom (3)
- A tiny box bedroom (4)
- A tiny box bathroom with a loo, sink & shower squeezed in

Obviously, if we lived there, dh and I would take the master bedroom, but the issue would be which bedrooms/bathrooms our dds would use.

We were thinking we'd probably do it like this:
Dd1 in bedroom 2, and dd2 in bedroom 3. Dd1 would use the ensuite attached to bedroom 2, while dd2 would have baths in our ensuite while she's still little, and then when she's older would have sole use of the tiny box bathroom, with the option of baths in our room if she wanted them.

Mumsnetters with older children - once dd2 is a teenager, is she likely to resent the fact that dd1 has a much bigger room, with a decent sized ensuite, while dd2 would have a smaller room and the use of a non ensuite tiny bathroom?

Should we take the fact that the house has been on the market for so long as a sign, and leave it alone?

OP posts:
BalloonSlayer · 16/07/2018 14:51

How about turning the massive master bedroom into two equally sized bedrooms for DDs with a shared bathroom?

bookmum08 · 16/07/2018 14:53

Blimey. I have never seen the need for so many bathrooms. Sounds like a massive house. You should be grateful you can afford something like that.

Jghijjjoo · 16/07/2018 14:57

I'd give dd1 the choice of the bigger bedroom 2 and en suite but having to move into the box room when visitors stay, or bedroom 3 and the use of the box bathroom. I think you might find she chooses the choice where she doesn't have to vacate for visitors and the problem of unfairness is resolved because that is her choice. Plus you have the bonus of an en suite room for guests when they stay, which would be better than a tiny box room.

Ellie56 · 16/07/2018 14:58

Sounds ideal apart from so many bathrooms to clean.

Barbaro · 16/07/2018 15:06

I would forget about guests. They can stay in hotels and it's rare you have guests anyway really.

You could knock through the wall at some point to create a bigger room and section off the ensuite. But I wouldn't bother, just let dd2 have bedroom 3 and the small bathroom and she can put stuff in bedroom 4 too if needed.

longestlurkerever · 16/07/2018 15:22

I guess that depends. I have overnight guests at least once a week and would hate them sleeping downstairs the whole time, but they could make do with box room or sofabed in shared play room/study. I think I like this option the best of it doesn't create another unfair situation re bedrooms 3 and 4. My upstairs is a funny layout too. My kids are still small but they have the two smallest rooms atm, but with some of their stuff in the giant study and spare room. It works for us. I might rejig things one day.

Barbaro · 16/07/2018 15:31

Fair enough. I was gonna put a small bed in our second bedroom for guests but my partner insisted on not having one so that we can't have guests. Can see his point, so much easier not having them.

PurpleTigerLove · 16/07/2018 15:38

Knock the wall down and make one big room out of 3 and 4 . Buy double beds or bigger if space permits . Both girls sleep together when guests stay . Sounds like it tick all your boxes in relation to location and schools , kids won’t care about bathrooms .

DeadGood · 16/07/2018 20:07

“Obviously cross-posted and not as quick at sending in a reply but thank goodness the time line proves how quick thinking you are...”

I jus’t didnt understand why you couldn’t make your suggestion without prefacing it with a statement of how original it was.

Sorry, bit snarky of me I know.

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