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Vile Neighbours Making Life Hell

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Candysandy · 16/07/2018 11:56

OK, so our neighbours moved in around three months ago and to say we haven't got off on the right foot would be a bloody understatement...Pretty much every week they've been having garden fires, burning all kinds of crap producing really vile noxious fumes and making it impossible for me to enjoy my garden or peg washing out etc...
During the recent hot spell we've been having they've really been ramping it up and having a fire on a daily basis,I've been off work for a couple of weeks and they've been burning stuff from around two in the afternoon til around 10pm , the smoke is really black and thick and gets right on your chest.I've had to keep all the windows and doors shut and the house has been like a bloody sauna...absolutely unbearable...we've actually had to leave the house and go for a long walk to get to respite or go to my mums to cool down!!!
I had a word with one of the girls that lives there as she asked me to bring my washing in last week as she was going to have a fire.I told her I wasn't happy about it and asked her to desist having them in the day to which she replied "We have to burn the rubbish to get the garden done". I told her she could put it in her brown recycling bin, compost it or take it to the tip. She just stared at me blankly and went about having her fire til 10pm...
Last week the smoke was so bad my eyes were streaming just from nipping out and feeding the rabbits so told her I wasn't happy and she ignored me.
I had no alternative to phone the council and they issued them with a letter. Saturday night I came in and the girls father(who has the bonfires with her) was waiting in their garden.
He told me I had no right to report him and that he could do as he pleased. I told him his daughter was in possession of a letter which said otherwise and how I had the right to enjoy my garden and breathe clean air and he leaned right in towards me and said "I'd watch myself if I was you ".
My husband witnessed it and told him not to threaten me and he lunged over the fence shouting "Come on Specky" and tried to punch my husband. His wife then came out and started getting in my face and shouting all kinds of crap that wasn't true...real vile stuff saying my son was a pervert checking out his daughters and just trying to score cheap points because she hadn't got a leg to stand on...we reported the lowlife to the cops and eventually they spoke to him and gave him a verbal warning and told him basically to wind his neck in...now the parents seem to come most days, being super loud and obnoxious,making us feel uncomfortable in our own home...I don't feel we can stay here any longer even though it's been our home for 23 years ...any advice would be greatly appreciated...AIBU to feel sick and depressed and contemplate selling up or should I find a different way of dealing with it? I genuinely feel frightened of what he might do next ,,,

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Candysandy · 16/07/2018 15:48

Also wanted to add my neighbour the other side is being affected too...she says she walked down the side of the house and got a mouthful of ash and to shut all her windows and doors...they belong in a zoo not a house...

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HeebieJeebies456 · 16/07/2018 16:18

the smoke is really black and thick and gets right on your chest

People are not allowed to burn 'anything they want' due to the noxious and potentially dangerous chemicals involved which can affect other's health.

Speak to your local fire dept about it.
We did due to something similar years ago, fire dept sent a couple of their guys out to investigate and speak to them....turned out a lot of the stuff they were burning was not only illegal in a residential place but also highly dangerous to those who breathed in the fumes

woodhill · 16/07/2018 17:21

Exactly so at least you have other ndn onside in this situation. Do contact council, it's just not on.

Wasn't there the unclean air act in the 50s when people lit fires in their homes before central heating.

BlancheM · 16/07/2018 17:45

Sympathies, I have no further advice to add to the good ideas you've had here. I completely understand as my neighbours are the same. They seem to be fixated with bonfires and setting fire to things. They are alcoholics, get up late, spend the afternoon gathering things to add to a bonfire then get increasingly drunk and play music until the early hours. A neighbour went round to complain about the bonfires and got beaten up. Local council won't do anything about the bonfires or noise and the police/fire brigade are out at least once a week due to one of them breaking a restraining order/fire getting out of hand thanks to them drunkenly falling asleep/violating probation.
Total nightmare. Now looking to leave my lovely home as the children are afraid.

Candysandy · 17/07/2018 08:08

Thanks all...really appreciate your help and sympathy...Blanche, that all sounds like a living nightmare...sending you big hugs and I sincerely hope things will change for you soon...we've accepted defeat and decided to sell up early next year, can't really go before that due to financial issues but I feel better knowing a fresh start is on the horizon...Scum like that never change and I don't want to spent my free time at the window filling in an incident diary or waiting for the vermin to start a billowing fire just as I've put my bedding on the line...

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