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TrainsandDiggers · 15/07/2018 23:44

So we have just said goodbye to the house guests from hell... our friend and his wife and child. I honestly feel like we’ve been used, abused and insulted over the past few days in so many ways, not so much by our friend, but by his wife (and to a degree, their child). I won’t go into detail for fear of outing myself, but imagine being treated like a servant/taxi service, your home insulted, your privacy invaded, and your house treated like a hotel, and you’d be on the right lines... Anyway, I just received a message from wife saying “Argh, left [child’s name] clock behind 😬” Now I know I’m being petty here, but I know she’s looking for me to post this at my expense and I really don’t want to. I’ve already got to replace a whole load of damaged items of my children’s thanks to their visit. Does anyone have any thoughts on how I can get her to pay for it without sounding really bad?! I really value our friend and don’t want to upset him. He’s aware of his wife’s behaviour towards others, and often apologies on her behalf out of embarrassment.

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iheartmichellemallon · 16/07/2018 00:30

I agree with those saying to lie & tell her you posted it!

Otherwise tell her you threw it out when throwing out all the stuff they damaged as you assumed it was bust too given it was left behind.

Either way, make sure you don't invite them back!

thebewilderness · 16/07/2018 00:31

They can buy a new one.
You need to focus on repairing the damage they did.

Rosielily · 16/07/2018 00:35

Ignore the text - she's set the standard for behaviour.

Smallhorse · 16/07/2018 00:35

Be the bigger person

Send it back

Never invite them again

Skittlesandbeer · 16/07/2018 01:10

Clock goes straight to the charity shop. It deserves a better owner.

Tell her it’s posted. Tell no one what you really did. Not even DH.

Come to terms with the fact that your friendship is doomed for next few years. You deserve better friends. It’s not enough for him to be embarrassed, he shouldn’t be foisting his horrid family on you.

And breathe.

AtrociousCircumstance · 18/07/2018 17:48

What did you decide to do OP? Smile

AnastasiaVonBeaverhausen · 18/07/2018 17:51

Be all passive aggressive and "I've got it but seems to be broken? I'll add it to the list of casualties from the weekend!"

AnastasiaVonBeaverhausen · 18/07/2018 17:52

Be all passive aggressive and "I've got it but seems to be broken? I'll add it to the list of casualties from the weekend!"

Fromage · 18/07/2018 19:26

hit it with a hammer, leave it overnight in a bag of prawns, then post it with no stamps

Racecardriver · 18/07/2018 19:30

Email me the postage label you get from the royal mail website and I'll post it to you ASAP x

mynameisupsydaisy · 18/07/2018 19:35

Tell her to print off a couriers label and you will send it back.
You don’t want it to get broken in the “normal” post!

pasturesgreen · 18/07/2018 19:39

Oh dear...such a crying shame you can't find it anywhere!

AtrociousCircumstance · 19/07/2018 19:00

racecardriver and daisy have if - tell her to send you a pre-printed postage label.

AtrociousCircumstance · 19/07/2018 19:00

*have it

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