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To think you can’t do this?!

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Silhouetta · 14/07/2018 00:07

My sister is staying in my houseshare. It’s a really nice room with an ensuite but obviously I try to be mindful of communal areas and others needs...

She doesn’t! She marches into the lounge when she gets in and leaves her opened umbrella on the floor to dry. Shouts at me at the top of her voice. When I don’t switch my bedroom lights off at the precise time she wants to sleep, she grabs a blanket and marches off to the lounge (shared!) saying she’s going to sleep there.

Aibu ti think this isn’t really ok. It’s amusing that in her house, she gives me orders on what I can and cannot do and I never really feel at home. Last time she banned me from her room :s

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Mxyzptlk · 14/07/2018 00:09

Chuck her out.

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 14/07/2018 00:11

Why are you having guests when you’re in a house share situation?

AfterSchoolWorry · 14/07/2018 00:12

She's staying? How long for? That's very cheeky! Your housemates are probably pissed off with you both. Send her home.

Silhouetta · 14/07/2018 00:15

I’m having guests because I’m allowed them, it’s only one night. Onboisly ive stopped her from sleeping in the lounge and am super respectful of my housemates. It’s just her attitude that I hate

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FissionChips · 14/07/2018 00:18

Why do you take such shit behaviour from her? Confused

Bcjek · 14/07/2018 00:24

Jog her on... she has no respect for you so how can she have respect for herself or anyone else 🙁

TroubledLichen · 14/07/2018 00:34

She’s a dick with clearly no respect for you or anyone else. I’m at a loss to understand why you maintain a relationship with her.

As for the situation tonight, thank goodness she’s only stay the one night. Apologise profusely to your housemates tomorrow. Don’t let your sister stay again should also go without staying.

Silhouetta · 14/07/2018 09:28

How can I get her to respect me??

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Mxyzptlk · 14/07/2018 09:56

You can't make her respect you but you can call her out on her crap and don't let yourself be bullied by her, even at her place.
If you don't like being at hers, stop going and tell her why.

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