Never posted before but on MN every day (and some nights) posting here for some sanity check...
This lady at work, we report to the same boss and became quite good pals (I thought), time after time seeing manager and colleague I had the impression that she really disliked him as individual, manager etc felt very sorry for her and tried to listen when she needed a rant....fast forward 6 months and I dislike manager now too (same reasons but I tried to make my own mind first) and sometimes I had to have a rant myself...she cut me short few times, very abruptly and I was a bit surprised and frankly annoyed with myself as after all as she put it, she was busy and I was taking time from her!! So I toned it down and started to have my little rants with other colleagues who funnily enough were very very helpful and sweet so I kept getting closer to them despite being in different teams. So now this colleague after having asked me why I do not chat to her anymore (maybe 5 days)and me replying sorry I was busy, has taken me in dislike and openly being a nightmare (interrupting me when I talk in meetings, warned new coworkers about me etc.) I feel bullied and frankly scared I will at some point have enough and will decide to leave....AIBU and being a drama queen or is this a truly bullying behaviour? She is lovely to everyone else!