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To ask if you've dated someone like this?

23 replies

beansandcheese26 · 13/07/2018 07:02

Someone who calls everyone that annoy them a dickhead. It could be if you said something, or the cab driver, or the someone in the queue in Tesco.

Always looking for a fight in public and very aggressive.

Will dismiss anything you suggests and make it look stupid.

Loud and boisterous in public, it's almost cringeworthy to watch.

Everything is everyone's fault, it's never him.

What do you think?

OP posts:
MiniTheMinx · 13/07/2018 07:04

No, why are there many people who would date such a thing? Seems strange to ask.

IShouldntPostBut · 13/07/2018 07:04

LTB...

MeanTangerine · 13/07/2018 07:04

Run for the fucking hills.

Toodamnhot · 13/07/2018 07:05

Don’t go out with them again.

Aeroflotgirl · 13/07/2018 07:05

No a dealbreaker, want somebody more intelligent than that!

Buggeroffalo · 13/07/2018 07:06

Well it’s not fucking rocket science is it?

Unless you’re a masochist, and enjoy a stressful miserable life, bin him/her and don’t look back.

donajimena · 13/07/2018 07:06

I'd think the person was desperate for a man at any cost. (Not judging I have been this person)

trojanpony · 13/07/2018 07:06

Run far far away immediately

MentalUnload · 13/07/2018 07:07

Yes, but never for longer than one date. Not a keeper.

ferntwist · 13/07/2018 07:08

Why would you even ask OP? Sounds truly awful

sonjadog · 13/07/2018 07:11

I haven’t dates someone like that because I wouldn’t be attracted to them.

Gottokondo · 13/07/2018 07:39

You don't have to date someone. If you don't like them then don't date them Hmm

vampirethriller · 13/07/2018 08:17

Yes, I did, but left as soon as I could! (He wasn't like it until we moved in together and then he let his guard down because as he put it "he'd got me now" Confused
He was vile. If that's what you're dealing with, get rid, it doesn't improve!

AnyFucker · 13/07/2018 08:19

I"d think you must be fucking desperate

ReanimatedSGB · 13/07/2018 08:33

You're either desperate, naive or he's got a solid gold dick.
It's one of the classic red flags for a dangerously abusive man - this is how he will treat you if you aren't abjectly adoring.

sexnotgender · 13/07/2018 08:35

He sounds horrendous.

beansandcheese26 · 13/07/2018 08:45

@vampirethriller exactly! He wasn't like this in the beginning, but as time went he let his guard down and I started to see him change.

He was very full on and charming in the beginning, said and did all the right things. I'm not desperate but people like him are very convincing and can easily deceive people.

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Bluntness100 · 13/07/2018 08:47

Well now you know what he's like dump him.

3stonedown · 13/07/2018 08:51

Yes, for 3 years when I was a 16. I was fucking awful. Every night out I would end up in tears as he would start a fight with anyone that accidentally bumped into him. I am the complete opposite (the kind of person that will apologise if someone bumps into me).

I would run for the hills now OP.

Iamtryingtobenicehere · 13/07/2018 08:59

If I dated a guy (back in my single years obviously, I’m married now) and he started acting like this, I’d dump his sorry arse, he sounds like the dickhead tbh.
It’s not the 1800s anymore, women dont have to put up with this sort of shit and there is no shame in being single.
Please tell me you’re not seeing this moron, and if you’re asking for a friend give her all the support and encouragement she needs to dump him.

AnyFucker · 13/07/2018 13:12

Get shut of him then

Are you going to do that ?

CoolCarrie · 13/07/2018 13:19

He is an arse, an embarrassing, unpleasant arse. Run for the hills from him. You will end up walking on eggshells,at the least, if you stay with him.

eve34 · 13/07/2018 13:31

Are you dating my ex? You don't need this shit in your life. I put up with it for far to many years. He won't change. He will only get worse. Cut your loses now. Find some one who knows how to behave appropriately.

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