To order takeaway just for me?

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So first month ttc after a late loss 2 years ago.

Came on this morning flooding heavy, very gutted. I was also 3 days late so had got my hopes up I'm in a lot of pain with cramps and tiredness etc. I had annual leave for tonight ( work nights) had planned to just chill out with some wine and a takeaway with DH as he's working next week on my birthday so this is lieu of a birthday dinner I suppose.

He 'got caught up' chatting with an ex colleague and has missed the train home so he won't be home until 10.30. He was meant to be bringing home tea.

So am I being unreasonable to be pretty pissed off? I put the phone down on him which I do feel bad about but I've ordered myself a takeaway and I'm having a large G&T alone. Watching mama Mia because I love it and he hates it. I've ordered a Thai fish curry because I never get to cook fish because he hates the smell.

I need some perspective. Am I being unreasonable to expect him to come home before 10.30 on my night off?

YANBU. Big hugs. How horrible for him to not show when you had taken time off to spend time with him!! Enjoy your fish and gin. Good luck with ttc and sorry for your previous loss xx

It may not have occurred to him that is your replacement birthday night f you haven’t discussed it so I’d leave it out. In any case if you are providing the meal it is always very rude to be late. And No of course I wouldn’t buy him takeaway.

YANBU, pour yourself another. Cheers OP, happy early birthday

Happy early birthday xx

Not BU.
Tell him how selfish he is being. I would hate this too.

Hope you enjoyed the takeaway.