Ex Husband Had a baby with my Best friend

[Cianna2011]

Hi,
This is my first time doing anything like this. Just after some thoughts.
I was married to my husband for 5 years and my best friend and him were seeing each other. We have two beautiful kids one 7 and the other 5. I have just recently found out that they have a child together. 6 months old. The DNA results proved it. I feel betrayed even though I haven't spoken to her in a couple of years. I don't know how my kids are going to take it when they are told. I'm so angry with both of them! Is this normal to feel like this?

Name change fail op

Is this normal to feel like this?

Ah yep, I would say "angry" is a textbook reaction to finding out your ex and ex-BF who had an affair have given your children a half-sibling.

Your dcs might not be that bothered when they are told except girls sometimes curious to see the baby. As ex won't be spending time with new dc then they won't be jealous. Sounds like yr ex friend doesnt give a scooby about anyone. Don't think it will affect you as much as you think. Hope u have found some real friends.

Oh OP my exh and bf had an affair under my nose. I kind of got suspicious. Anyway our DC's were 1 and 4. It was a pretty shit divorce. Move on.
He lied in court... Oh I will stop right here because it might not even be true