Okay long story short been seeing a guy for over a year now at the start we went away on weekend which I always arranged , we split the cost we had anice time , I am bit old fashioned and hoped the relationship we lead to more of the same doing things together at weekend. Now we only see each other every 2 weeksor maybe longer as he is busy with work and hobbies like hillwalking something I am not into . He is a nice guy but always been single I have been a single parent and always worked , I just hoe at this stage in my life it would be nice to have a companion as my kids have flown the nest . He says he would never live with someone ,I was upset at first then accepted it , but now dont feel we are a couple anymore . Do I tell him this or just stop seeing him , he always comes to mine as I have the bigger cleaner home .