DSis lives in another country and our contact is sporadic as she doesn't have great internet. It is also tough as DSis has had many losses inc a set if twins last year, and DH and I have 3 dc inc twins. I sometimes worry she doesn't necessarily want to hear from me.
Recently, BIL converted to a new religion and DSis has joined in too. I am fully in favour of religious freedom but am a bit alarmed. They pray multiple times per day, DSis has gone to special female only religious lessons and has apparently starting veiling at their place of worship. Apparently the spiritual leaders told her her fertility struggles were due to her not being "properly" married so she and Bil got remarried within their new religious community. They did not invite our family, only bil's who belong to the same religion.I think she now believes they will be blessed with dc.
I also found out recently that bil reads her emails as they are married so should share everything. I feel concerned she is getting isolated and that she is in for crushing disappointment if she still can't get pg.
Aibu to feel worried?