We have all given up on house chores other than cooking, tidying up toys (occasionally), dishwasher / washing machines and clean up the worktop after cooking (or every other day). Obviously, we also do other chores but as when possible, when we have energy, or when we are sick of looking at the mess.
Get your kids to help more as if it were a game / their special job.
I prepare breakfast and put the kettle, I empty the dishwasher whilst I wait. I sit them with cereal and cartoons, I have a shower. 5yo gets ready for school (clothes) whilst I change the 3yo. She gets her school bag ready whilst I do the 3yo one. We go out to either school or soft play, park, supermarket, shops, etc. Just go out, it doesn't have to be a kids' play area, do your shopping and save time. I found out that my local Iceland allows you to buy in store and they will deliver that same afternoon / evening for free, so it's a great way to walk around and buy milk, frozen stuff, etc, without having to go back home before the food defrosts. It's only £25 minimum purchase, so I can do small top ups. The kids like to choose the ice creams or the pizzas, and I gives me a good half an hour of mental meal preparation. We go afterwards to something kids-orientated. We go back home at or after lunch. They have some quiet time with the tablet or the cartoons whilst I set up the meal or tidy up a bit. I sit down with them and have a cup of tea. I let them play in the garden or playroom whilst I watch TV or do some work. I complain that they haven't tidy up this or that. I brive them with some treat for clearing the floor of the playroom, I'll give them some snack. They usually play again in the garden or sit down to do some drawings. I make tea, the kids take their own plates, cutlery and cups (plastic picnic stuff). They also take it back to the kitchen when finished and wipe their table with baby wipes (not to a great standard but liveable). They clean any spills they do. After tea they choose what to do, whether it is reading, playing, or cartoons. If they tidy up the playroom they get a treat like a haribo or two. Most often than not, they don't do it, though. DH takes them to bed. One goes straight to sleep, the other one stays awake until I go upstairs 15min later. I either have a cup of tea or put another dishwasher in between. I go upstairs, read a story or two, talk about the day and lie in bed a bit with her until she falls asleep. I might do the online shopping on phone if I need to, whilst she is drifting off. DH does the washing. He either puts one or takes one off, I'm not sure if he has a schedule, I think he puts one when he arrives from work, as he puts also his work clothes for the day in the basket; and a second one when I go upstairs to put DD to sleep, with timer to do in the early morning. We rinse the bath and shower after use and clean the rest when we notice. Beds are never made nowadays, just aired. We change the bedsheets at weekend and generally try wash them as soon as we take them out, otherwise they end filling the basket for days. DH does the vacuum on Sundays, if needed. We brush the floor after meals, though, at least around the kids' seats. We don't iron. DH irons his work clothes on a daily basis, at night, but that's it.
I spend too much time online on my phone. I probably could do more.