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To withdraw from this job offer?

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ellesworth · 08/07/2018 20:53

I was offered a new job last week (Tuesday) and initially said yes, (because tbh I was pissed off with my work due to working 4 weekends in a row when I was promised one every fortnight). The job would be what i was doing (and enjoyed) before my current job.
The job is regular hours/days, and would mean DH could find a PT job while studying. However, it's 9 hours pw less than I'm doing just now, so down about £200/month. We are just comfortable atm but that would kill us.
Plus because I'd be using my own car there would be quite a bit of mileage on the car, plus wear and tear, tyres, brakes etc to worry about.
The shifts I'm doing now are 8-8 but pattern is random and I can't guarantee what days I'll be working. The shifts there would be 7-1 or 4-10, BUT I'd be doing both every 2nd weekend (both days).
If money were no object I would do the offered job, but aibu to say "thanks but I've changed my mind"? And how do I word an email to that extent?

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deary · 08/07/2018 20:55

Would DH finding a job not make up the short fall and more though?

llangennith · 08/07/2018 20:57

Something along the lines of “thank you for offering me this job but I’ve thought a lot about the reduction in hours and therefore salary it involves and I really need a job that offers me an increase in salary.”
I’m sure somebody will come along with better wording.

NewYearNewMe18 · 08/07/2018 20:57

Up front and say Thank you for the offer of employment, the role is exactly what I hoped it would be but regrettably the reduced hours make it financially impossible for me to accept

ellesworth · 08/07/2018 21:03

Deary- in the long term, probably, however it's the uncertainty of how long it would take for him to get one and get his first pay. £200 is a lot of money when you're only making enough to stay afloat.

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youknowwherethecityis · 08/07/2018 21:16

If it's 9 hrs less, could you find a second part time job if necessary?

Is there the chance the hours might increase or the might e overtime available?

deary · 08/07/2018 21:19

If it is £50 a week, and he is a student, he could sign up with agencies. He would easily get that a day doing factory work.

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