I was offered a new job last week (Tuesday) and initially said yes, (because tbh I was pissed off with my work due to working 4 weekends in a row when I was promised one every fortnight). The job would be what i was doing (and enjoyed) before my current job.
The job is regular hours/days, and would mean DH could find a PT job while studying. However, it's 9 hours pw less than I'm doing just now, so down about £200/month. We are just comfortable atm but that would kill us.
Plus because I'd be using my own car there would be quite a bit of mileage on the car, plus wear and tear, tyres, brakes etc to worry about.
The shifts I'm doing now are 8-8 but pattern is random and I can't guarantee what days I'll be working. The shifts there would be 7-1 or 4-10, BUT I'd be doing both every 2nd weekend (both days).
If money were no object I would do the offered job, but aibu to say "thanks but I've changed my mind"? And how do I word an email to that extent?