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To think I'm not common and working class

78 replies

hswarbrick · 08/07/2018 08:33

Someone in a group chat just called me "the most working class person I know😂, you're really into all this common stuff😗" in response to me being excited about both the football and the royal wedding this year. I hope the emoji's have pasted, they make it woorse imo.

Not sure if I should just ignore or say something

OP posts:
Hideandgo · 08/07/2018 08:35

I’d probably type back ‘Gosh, that’s very classist. Doesn’t reflect well on you😗’.

kaytee87 · 08/07/2018 08:36

Just reply saying 'wow, how rude'

NotAsGreenAsCabbageLooking · 08/07/2018 08:36

Is there anything wrong with working class?

kaytee87 · 08/07/2018 08:37

I think it's the 'common' the op objects to. May be wrong

FlaviaAlbia · 08/07/2018 08:37

"Oh well, at least I don't have terrible manners"

AdaLoveless · 08/07/2018 08:37

‘Working class’ isn’t an insult, you know. ‘Common’, on the other hand, is an unpleasantly sneery, class-conscious term.

LongSummerDays · 08/07/2018 08:37

"That comment says far more about you than about me" with a smile

zeebeedee · 08/07/2018 08:38

Being classy is about your behaviour, not what you get excited about!

Whoever said that is not classy at all - how rude!

FlaviaAlbia · 08/07/2018 08:38

Or "ok then Hyathinch"

TwitterQueen1 · 08/07/2018 08:38

I think the tried and tested classic would be appropriate here: "Did you mean to be so rude?" or if you want to be little more light-hearted you could say: "I'm with the other 25 million (I don't know the real numbers) who also watched the wedding and the football?"

It was very rude - as well as being completely ridiculous of course.

BossWitch · 08/07/2018 08:39

Well, traditionally football is a working class game... still rude as fuck though!

"Did you mean to be so rude?" could be deployed!

However, worth wondering about why you find it so insulting?

LyndseyKola · 08/07/2018 08:39

Being working class isn’t an insult unless the insult giver is a total stuck up knob.

Common on the ofher hand is definitely an insult.

CambridgeAnaglypta · 08/07/2018 08:39

Last week we got caught up in two women screeching "Hi darl'" to each other - that's common.

GloGirl · 08/07/2018 08:41

I'd probably reply that they're mistaking class for populism and that it's not working class to be interested in current events like the rest of society.

PrincessoftheSea · 08/07/2018 08:41

I would think it, but not say it.

pandarific · 08/07/2018 08:41

LOVE @Hideandgo's response!

What a twatty thing to say - who is this person and what's their relationship to you? Sounds like they have form for this kind of thing. Sad

Fatted · 08/07/2018 08:41

Better to be common and not care than to be a snob!

My parents live in a very affulent middle class area and they've had street parties for the royal wedding and the football. I think the person calling you common has no idea of what is really common.

AdaLoveless · 08/07/2018 08:41

If you disregard the rudeness for a minute, there is probably a correlation between social class and being the kind of person who camped on a pavement in Windsor wearing a Union Jack hat for the last royal wedding. Football seems to me a bit more cross-class, but as I’m both bored by sport and anti-monarchist AND a working class foreigner living in England, I might be wrong.

HoneyDragon · 08/07/2018 08:43

The current president of the FA is well common.

MissusGeneHunt · 08/07/2018 08:46

How rude! Clearly they have no "class" at all. Be proud of being working class, as the clue is in the name, and forget the 'common' moniker, the person has just just exhibited perfect hypocrisy!!

ladymariner · 08/07/2018 08:48

And what exactly is wrong with being working class?

longwayoff · 08/07/2018 08:48

Its beyond common to describe another person as common. Extremely naff. Dear me.

MrsJayy · 08/07/2018 08:53

I would reply Wow I have just realised you are the snobbiest snootiest person I know !

immortalmarble · 08/07/2018 08:54

It’s a bloody rude thing to say and I don’t like rude people regardless of their class. How obnoxious.

ScreamingValenta · 08/07/2018 08:56

Awfully common - ugh Wink.

For example, just look at this dreadful working class oik getting excited about the football yesterday:

prince-william-sings-footballs-coming-home

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