So we currently have an 18 mo girl and I always said even before we had a baby that I wanted two babies. If I was going to have one I wanted to have another! I just knew I wanted that sibling connection. I probably would have been happy to start trying sometime next year for our second, or early the year after if not. Recently things have happened and me and my fiancé both lost our jobs, however we have both got new jobs, and are finically a lot better off than with our first.
My fiancé’s job also has a 4 year degree alongside it, an amazing opportunity, that he never thought he’d get. He’s now saying he doesn’t want another baby for at least 4 years if ever.
I can see where he’s coming from but I can’t shake that feeling that I wanted one a lot sooner, our child will be 5 1/2 by the time he may be open to having a second. At first he said he point blank doesn’t want more, and said ‘I’ll have to find someone else’ if I do. He later apologised for that but now my head is a mess.
AIBU?? I think I may be but I can’t help the way I feel.