I'm pregnant. I have a family member who is extremely self absorbed, gets upset because she thinks I talk to other family members more than her and don't involve her or call her enough etc etc etc. She wanted to come and visit me and I told her 'probably not right now. I'm having a pregnancy scare and am also having an amnio on Thursday but after I'm recovered would be nice' - no response. No good luck for the amnio. No 'I hope everything is ok'. Nothing. This was two weeks ago and I have heard that she is in a strop with me because I haven't been in touch over the past two weeks. She's 40 years old and still plays these silly mind games where if I don't phone her for a week she intentionally won't call me to see how long it will take for me to get in touch. It's just ridiculous. Quite frankly if I knew my close family member was having an amnio and potentially had issues with their pregnancy, I would want to wish them luck and give them all the time they need!
AIBU to want nothing to do with her anymore? She clearly doesn't care and I'm slowly realising this...