To think new man shouldn't babysit

[Toodlepip14]

AIBU to think my friend who has been out with a man twice, should not let him look after her children (12 & 14) for the day? He has offered to...

If they were 2 and 4 then probably not but at that age they don't need looking after do they?

What is the circumstance to this happening?

She has an all day function to attend

YANBU. She sounds naive at best. Very odd - have you told her you think it's unwise?

Why do the DC need looking after?

Another friend has. She has laughed about it, she hasn't actually agreed to it. But I think it's very odd he even offered

Yanbu. The offering to babysit teenagers who don't need babysitting when he's been out with their mother twice is a MASSIVE red flag.

What smashed said.

I wouldn't leave anyone I'd met twice with my kids....unless it was a nursery setting or a child minder.

He offered?!! Mmmmmmm! I wouldn’t risk it personally.