Have NCd for this as potentially outing.
I work for a consultant company and have a few clients I look after, one of which are the middle men and the work we do is actually for one of their clients. The nature of the contract we have with company x means me and the main contact (we'll call him mr A) there talk 2-3 times and have 2- 1hour conference calls a week with their customers as well. The conference call happens at around 8pm and prior to the conference call mr A rings to have a quick catch up to make sure that things are on plan. I don't get cell Reception on my work phone at home so anything outside of office hours are done on my personal number (company x are the only company that need ooh support).
There have been a few issues throughout the contract (verbal abuse from one of their customers, and then another accident which I'm about to get into) which has lead to Mr A offering some emotional support on top of the work stuff, largely because he's been there for every incident so seen the aftermath. The biggest of these incidents was 2 weeks, mr A, my boss and I were out with one of their customers, where my drink got spiked. Mr A took me to the hospital and boss went to back to the office to locate staff files in order to contact my emergency contact. I had the best part of a week off and since my return mr a has checked in daily about how I'm doing since the spiking ect... anyway tonight I've had a text and 3 calls from his wife demanding to know if we're having an affair. We aren't. But aibu to just not respond to her? I really can't be bothered dealing with their drama, and my company are ending ties with company x next Friday (it allows them time to find a new company and do handovers which is why it wasn't Instant) so I'll never have to talk to him after that anyway?