Yes I could just be being stuffy but my friend never says thanks for anything!
She comes round for dinner, I cook nice food we have a fun evening and no thank you the next day or anything.
Last month it was her birthday she came round in the afternoon for cake etc. I took some trouble to make it a nice experience champagne, made a cake and some other bits, and got what I thought was a thoughtful present. She didn't thank me for the present at the time, as she was leaving or even a text later on. Nothing! She is godmother to my dd , was a bridesmaid and we have been close but this sort of lack of gratitude pisses me off. She didn't even bother to get dd an Xmas present. It's not a present for a present but we always get her a gift, which she doesn't thank me for...
Our lives have moved in different directions in the past few years, I'm married with kids and she is single and moves jobs a lot. She hasn't had much luck dating and is a bit lonely and a tad depressed. I try to be a good friend, asking how dates have been, how is the new job, let's go to the cinema etc. She often bails on plans she has organised at the last minute. I purposefully don't talk about the kids much. But she always has little digs about my children, what I've been doing, my messy house etc.
I know that I should probably sever some ties but often we have a great time together. But some of the above behavior does make me question if this is worth pursuing?