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AIBU to apply for new jobs when on waiting list for operation?

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BettyBaggins · 03/07/2018 18:14

I have just been told I have been put on the waiting list for an op I have waited for, for 25 years. Very relieved. It means I can return to work freelance on a project I am incredibly passionate about.

Thing is, I detest my temp gone perm job. It doesnt pay enough and I need to raise more than I am taking home to fund above mentioned project initially. Been at current job 18 months.

Recovery will mean between 2-6 weeks off work. If I apply for better paid jobs what do I say about op and sick leave?

Aibu to apply for new jobs?

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Neverender · 03/07/2018 18:16

I'd just tell them what you've put here - you're on a waiting list for an operation and you'll let them know ASAP when it will be. I think that's all you need to do.

safariboot · 03/07/2018 18:43

I would just apply and not even say anything. It's not like it's planned for a specific date. For all you know it could be years until you have the op, especially with the NHS regularly cancelling 'routine' surgery.

halfwitpicker · 03/07/2018 18:46

Apply and don't say anything.

LonelyGir1 · 03/07/2018 18:55

If you owned a business and were budgeting for headcount and paying for salaries, how would you feel about it?

BettyBaggins · 03/07/2018 19:36

Thanks netters. I do run a business, the project is one as such so I hear what you are saying @Lonelygirl1 I currently work for a large national company who can absorb my costs and loss and I would keep a similar company size in mind IF applying for other jobs. What would you do? Stick until sick leave over??

I am in an open plan office of nearly 60, it is sometimes fair to say close to a zoo of hell in there. I spent 20 years working from home or on the road, arggggggggggggh!

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MissCharleyP · 03/07/2018 19:52

You could really do with finding out the potential companies policies on probation and absence beforehand (easier said, I know). I don’t imagine many would take kindly to a new person having up to six weeks off after a few weeks in a job. Did the hospital give you any indication of how long you could wait?

BettyBaggins · 03/07/2018 21:09

Sorry, 4 months waiting list. I need to wait it out and job hunt madly a week or so before I go in for op I think. Would be kind of nice to hand notice in on my return tbh!

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