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Office etiquette: hairy toes on the loose?

24 replies

lenalove · 03/07/2018 14:35

Please tell me if I'm BU, or if this is legitimately a bit grim: a male colleague of mine, relatively senior, has taken to just wandering about the office in his bare feet. He sheds his loafers the minute he gets in and then that's it for the day. I can't put my finger on what exactly about this makes me a bit grossed out, but for some reason I just don't like it ha! He wanders past my desk and all I can see are his hairy toes Shock

For context, we work in financial services so it's not as though the office environment is super chilled and casual.

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illhavethesalad · 03/07/2018 14:41

Yuk! Can you raise it as a health & safety issue? Then accidentally on purpose drop a pot plant/ hot coffee / load of files on his feet to prove your point Grin

LyndseyKola · 03/07/2018 14:44

Bare feet at work is grim and shouldn’t be allowed for many reasons (hygiene and safety being just one).

But given that the concept of body hair and hair removal is a cultural construct, i’d drop the idea that the hairiness is in any way relevant to this. It’d be just as bad if they weren’t hairy. There’s nothing intrinsically wrong with body hair.

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 03/07/2018 14:44

Yuck. We have a contractor who occasionally pops in and he never wears shoes inside or outside. Even in bloody winter! YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK. Makes me want to heave.

MrsMotherHen · 03/07/2018 14:46

Envy Envy Envy not envy ....that's pretty grim. Drop something on his toes or spill something gross over them.

Storminateapot · 03/07/2018 14:47

Boak! I'm a bit funny about feet anyway & I don't like women wearing flip-flops or very strappy sandals to work, but a bare-footed bloke. Ewww!!

lenalove · 03/07/2018 14:49

Heheh the idea of dropping food onto his feet has made me chuckle, thanks Grin

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tiggerbounce77 · 03/07/2018 14:50

I often walk about the office in bare feet, I don't see it being much different to wearing flip flops. If someone dropped a hot drink on me it would still hurt the same bit of I stood one something sharp then it's my own fault.

AfterSchoolWorry · 03/07/2018 14:50

That's gross.

TroubledLichen · 03/07/2018 14:51

Yuck!!! When I worked in that industry we had a few traders that took to walking around in their socks and I thought that was bad. I always assumed they were spending too much time at work and they’ve forgotten they didn’t actually live there.

specialsubject · 03/07/2018 14:57

no. Shoes of some sort are essential in an office. Even flip flops or sandals. Anyone with a teeny-weeny brain can bring in a change of footwear if needed.

we'll ignore the body shaming.

viques · 03/07/2018 14:59

Clearly a stationery disaster is called for , a terrible collision between a huge pot of drawing pins and a pot of staples and other small sharp things. What a calamity. You know what it's like with things like that, you can never manage to pick them all up.

Blobby10 · 03/07/2018 15:27

I was thinking that you need to place something squishy and revolting in his path so he treads on it Grin. But I do like the idea of scattered drawing pins (does anyone in an office actually use those anymore?!!!)

lenalove · 03/07/2018 15:54

Oops didn't mean to offend with "hairy" (especially as a rather hirsute individual myself!) - used that more for illustrative purposes than anything else but do take your point! Hairless toes just as grim!

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adaline · 03/07/2018 15:58

I go barefoot at work when I'm off the shop floor. Our stockroom gets uncomfortably hot - we have no windows and only one pathetic fan, and then I end up with blisters due to sweaty feet if I wear shoes!

But I don't get the angst about seeing other people's feet. We all have them. As long as he's not putting his feet on the desk or where people make food, what's the issue?

fluffiphlox · 03/07/2018 16:01

Hate seeing feet in a business environment. Closed in shoes all round even if it’s hot. I’m rather retrograde in this respect though, I accept that.

heatwave2018 · 03/07/2018 16:06

That’s disgusting. Maybe raise it with HR, it's not just hygiene reasons but he could stand on anything like a staple etc

femidom12 · 03/07/2018 16:11

Grim grim grim. I would 'accidentally' tread on his minging, hairy foot with my stiletto given a half chance!

MereDintofPandiculation · 03/07/2018 16:18

I can understand some people may have "issues" about seeing feet. But that's no reason why everyone around them should keep their feet covered at all times.

Whether it's OK to go barefoot in an office I have no real opinion about. It wouldn't worry me personally.

adaline · 03/07/2018 16:21

I can understand wanting protection on the bottom of the feet in case people tread on pins/nails/broken glass or whatever, but surely heels don't really offer much top-of-foot protection, and neither do sandals.

I'm not allowed to wear shoes that don't cover my toes - fine - so I wear ballet shoes, which don't offer any protection whatsoever but are "allowed" according to the dress code so I can get away with it. Madness!

BarbarianMum · 03/07/2018 16:31

Why is it "disgusting"? Do you eat off the floor or something? One of my colleagues has seriously ugly hands. Should I object if she touches things or require that she wears gloves?

Hot coffee or a stiletto on the foot will hurt in most shoes. Maybe they should be banned fom the workplace?

TheGreatCornholio · 03/07/2018 16:39

People's hands are more dirty than their feet...

Ohyesiam · 03/07/2018 16:42

Huh? Disgusting?
This is a whole new level of pearl clutching that the could never have predicted.

DonkeysDontRideBicycles · 03/07/2018 16:51

Is he the office lifeguard?

allertse · 03/07/2018 17:26

His feet are probably cleaner than the bottom of your shoes. Unless you are also barefoot, I can't see why on earth this bothers you, as presumably no other part of you is touching the floor? If he treads on a pin, that's his problem.

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