To be thinking about leaving DH?

[IrnBruOo]

First off i’ll say hes a good guy, kind funny and a fantastic dad to our ds’s. We have been married 13 years and the only thorn in our side is his lies.

Hes always told small white lies. Things like hiding money troubles from me always saying he didnt want me to worry as i was pregnant at the time, now its communication with the IL’s.

We dont get on, they have never liked me but really i dont care. They dont live close and they have never been a close family.

Again tonight i’ve found out hes been discussing dates for a family wedding that involves travel and hasnt told me despite me saying even today he should be finding this information out.

I think i’ve had enough. I love him but i cant keep being left out of everything. Im scared that I wouldnt cope without him and I dont want to destory my kids life’s.

You really need to sit down and have a proper conversation with him. Your reasons for leaving are a bit fluffy tbh. You say you love him, he’s a good dad, it’s just that his family are a bunch of fuckers (join the club)
Talk to him, get all the shit out in the open and make sure you’ve explored every avenue before you throw this away.

Thats the problem i have. Everytime this happens we sit down and do the whole heart to heart thing and he promises never again. Its never anything completely massive just the really stupid things and it hurts.

Divorce hangman. You get the papers, and every lie he tells, you fill in a piece of them. When they're complete they get filed