I understand the answer will vary greatly depending on where people live ect but I was wondering at what age it's usually fine to let kids play out unattended ?
My eldest is 8 and says all of her friends are allowed to play out in the streets and if we go for a walk to the park / shops ect on a warm day we do always see at least one or two of her friends out with no adults . We live in an old mining town with really long colliery rows of houses and whilst they're not main roads , cars do go up and down them . The way the houses are set out I wouldn't be able to see her from my house even if she was just in our row , her friends live a few rows across though and this is where she's asking to go .
I trust her to be sensible as far as an 8yo could be but I do have reservations and dh says he doesn't think it's a good idea to let her . Also if we let her , her sister who is 6 would also want to go with her . Are we being overprotective or is it normal to just let her in the yard ? I feel bad for her because when I was her age I was out for hours at a time with my brother and our friends , though we lived on an estate that was built differently and everyone knew each other .