Handhold please, friend stabbed me in the back

[ladbrookroad]

When I was going through a rough period, I confide in a friend about my marriage. She went and told another mutual friend, even though I told her to keep it between us. And now DH knows and is very upset with me.

I can't believe she done it, I'm so hurt and feel like I can't trust anyone anymore.

Should I confront her, or just delete and block?

What about the other mutual friend? They obviously blabbed too.

Some people are lucky enough to have a friend they can trust with their life. Some others believe their friend is like that but it turns out they're not. You're in the second group.

The only way to be absolutely sure your story won't get out there is to never tell anyone. I'm sure you didn't think you were doing anything wrong - why would you - but you were the one who put it out there first.

Don't confide in her again now you know what she does. Whether you speak to her or block her depends on how much you value the friendship.

@TheDevilMadeMeDoIt yes I'll never trust anyone after this. I'm so upset and hurt, I feel so betrayed. I guess learned it the way hard

Why is your husband upset and hurt. Was it the fact you told your friend or do you tell her something he didn't know?