I’m becoming increasingly concerned about a friend and her health but am unsure how to raise it with her or even if I should. She’s always been tall and relatively slim but in the last 6 months or so, she has become skeletal. She was always the girl who hated PE at school and I have to say I was surprised when she started running but at the time, this just seemed like a healthy new hobby. However looking at photos of her today, I wonder if it’s part of a bigger problem. We don’t live especially close to each other anymore but are in regular contact via a group chat and we get together as a group of friends a few times per year. I don’t know if raising this with her is going to do more harm than good. I know she’s unhappy in her current job and living situation so feel this could be contributing but I just don’t know how to help. I don’t want to be seen to be gossiping by bringing it up with our mutual friends behind her back but also am worried that maybe I’m overreacting (I definitely don’t think I am though - she’s probably 5’8 and a size 6 hangs off her) so am scared of being the person to bring it up.
AIBU to think she has a problem but be too scared to address it? (I know I am)