To ask why nurseries don’t ask his name?

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Currently looking round new nurseries for DS who is 2. We’re relocating so need to choose a nursery in new town. He’s been in current nursery for a year which is fabulous, he is loved and cared for.
I’ve looked round 4 nurseries so far and only one out of the 4 has asked his name or anything about him. The others just talked about their nursery, activities, routines, fees etc.
It’s made me feel they don’t care about him at all, not interested enough to even ask his name. Aibu? Maybe I am! Please let me know what you think!

YANBU! I had this too. Put me right off. I’m sure they were lovely nurseries but I like a bit more human connection in that sense. Have you considered a childminder?

Hmm if you're looking around with him I'd be concerned about them
Not engaging with him using his name. If you're looking around alone I think they're prob doing their v neutral script

Thanks both.
Lidl, I feel he needs to continue the "busyness" of a nursery setting but I'll have a think about childminders, good idea!

Yeah, I get they're reading from a script. Maybe iabu!