It's an old friend, I didn't ask about limits TBF but I knew they were disbarred for a year (nearly up now).
I innocently enquired a couple of days ago how much over the limit they were (nothing much happened, she clipped the curb) and they lost their temper with me!
I don't think it's bad to ask though, is it? They could easily have said they found that really embarassing and didn't want to talk about it. Or maybe I was out of order?
Didn't get why they found that offensive.