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to hate being micromanaged

15 replies

jinjkl · 27/06/2018 21:14

I've never experienced it before, until starting my current job. In previous roles, I've always been left to it and been fairly independent. But the micromanagement in my current role is so extreme I feel suffocated. Managers must know everything I am doing at every second of the day (they check our screens and make us live log our work), access and read all my emails, quiz me several times a day on what I'm doing, ask for my plans every day, and pull me into a meeting if I am taking too long on something.

Is this normal? I've never had to do this anywhere else.

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Danceintherain2018 · 27/06/2018 21:15

No! Thisnwould drive me crazy!

UpstartCrow · 27/06/2018 21:16

No that's not normal. I'd assume they've had a serious problem recently and would hope it calms down after a time.

Fluffypinkpyjamas · 27/06/2018 21:18

Start looking for a new job. That’s not normal.

DitheringBlidiot · 27/06/2018 21:20

Not normal! I work now in an environment that could easily become like this but miraculously has not - I know other departments are more like how you have described. What’s their justification for looking at your emails etc? Personally if I were you I’d start looking for another job, it sounds unbearable

Stripybeachbag · 27/06/2018 21:22

How horrible. Start job searching. Micromanaging is just distrust of employees and a sign that someone is paid too much with not enough work to do.

flashnaaz · 27/06/2018 21:23

Do they do this with everyone?

GirlsBlouse17 · 27/06/2018 21:23

This is definitely not normal. I went from one organisation where I had worked independently for 9 years to anothwe organisation where I was micromanaged for 7 years and it suffocated me. I should have left after the first week!

KatharinaRosalie · 27/06/2018 21:25

Start looking for a new job. I'm not kidding. I had a boss like that and it's hell.

Maelstrop · 27/06/2018 21:26

Wow, this would drive me mad and I’d be sacked for being on mumsnet for ages today! Is it a very small company run by someone paranoid?

ShinyMe · 27/06/2018 21:29

I've had the opposite over the last few months. Moved from a job where I had been micromanaged for a very long time to one where I'm pretty much left to get on with things. I found it really hard to adjust - kept going to my new manager wanting her to check things and confirm she's happy with emails I was sending or letters I was writing and so on. She's been really understanding and reassuring, and I've managed to adjust now so that I only ask her when it's relevant. I hadn't really realised how odd and suffocating the micromanaging was until I'd left it behind - I think it came up gradually. Thinking back, the micromanaging was intensely suffocating and really dented my confidence and my belief in my skills. I have no idea how I could have prevented it from happening - the only way I got away was by changing jobs.

Sorry, I don't have any advice OP, but you have my sympathy.

flashnaaz · 27/06/2018 21:41

@maelstrop Mumsnet in work time?

dontbesillyhenry · 27/06/2018 22:56

Sounds very much like my job- very targets driven and you have to account for every moment of the day

KatharinaRosalie · 28/06/2018 10:57

ShinyMe micromanaging boss really does a number on you, doesn't it. By the time I got rid of mine, I wasn't even sure what my name is and if I should maybe double-check with her..

pinkoneblueone · 28/06/2018 11:03

This is not normal I have experienced this in my last job where my bosses wife joined the business and micro managed me. I couldn't so much as write an email without being told what I was doing was wrong. It was awful I'm glad I found the courage to leave in the end.

Storm4star · 28/06/2018 11:06

I also had to leave a job like this, I couldn't stand it. I wasted so much time having to "report back" every single thing and updating "work log" type documents all the time, that I didn't have enough time to actually do the job! Cue then even more micro management to "resolve" the problem. I now work for the most laid back person ever! Which is fantastic, and I get a lot more done!

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