I'll try not to drip feed - OH and I are full time farmers, working from his dads farm, (self employed, not paid a wage if that makes any difference)
We have obviously both grown up in the village but moved away together as nowhere is available to buy/rent anywhere near the farm so its a half hour commute to and from the farm every morning/night, we foolishly thought it would be do-able for the commute.
His dad has slowed down a bit on the farming side due to age/ill health which has meant OH has had to effectively take over the running of the livestock (which are all still in his dads name)aswell as our own livestock and the other farming duties such as hay making, silaging, fencing and general upkeep and maintenance, which means OH is spending more time at the farm or in the village where the livestock are kept and I get there as soon as I can after school runs etc.
Since the demand has increased OH is finding it increasingly difficult to travel and be away from the farm, he has often had to rely on surrounding neighbours to keep him informed of any problems with the farm which has meant OH has to leave sometimes at 2/3am in the morning to attend to sick or calving/lambing animals, I can't even go with him to help due to children being in bed, which has meant he doesn't always get there in time or he has complaints from the neighbours with regards to waking them up in the middle of the night by starting the car and leaving!
The problem is there is nowhere suitable in our price range to buy, not even close.
Living in the farmhouse is not an option as it's only a 2 bed
We applied to have a mobile caravan on the farm during the busiest time but were turned down.
Which leads me onto the AIBU. There are several properties in the village which are agriculturally tied, which means you can only purchase them if you are a farmer or forestry worker. This therefore means they are worth a lot less on the open market.
Recently the local council have been very lax in allowing these ties to be removed which means they are selling for double the money to joe public, which whilst I can understand it from the home owners point of view wanting to get as much money as possible, the reason they were allowed to be built in the first place was so that they were available for farming/agricultural needs.
I have done some research and as far as i can see the requirements for having a tie removed are that 1) you market it for a reasonable period of time to prove no interest and 2) the local council are supposed to conduct a survey in the local area to find out if there would be any farmers interest in purchasing.
The second one never happens, the first one is done by "stealth" meaning they never have any for sale signs up and are not online only in the estate agents which means people like us never get to hear about them by which time the mandatory time period for it being on the open market has passed.
I have contacted the local council and asked them why these requirements are not being adhered to, they couldn't answer me, I also asked to be informed of any property applications whereby the applicant wishes to remove the tie for selling purposes and was told we can always ring and ask if we hear of an application to remove the tie but probably wouldn't hold any water.
I have also registered with every estate agent within a 25 mile radius specifically requesting to be notified of any suitable properties in the area so I can't think what else to do.
We also approached one property owner who i know wants to leave the village in a year or so time to move in with family but we were told that they will be removing the tie to get the best possible price..
We purchased a piece of land and have been told in no uncertain terms we will not be allowed to build a small dwelling on there, regardless of the fact that there is a need to be close to the farm.
What on earth does the rest of the farming population do in similar circumstances? AIBU?