what are peoples thoughts on this?

[XxChlozxz]

do you think TTC 7 months after an abortion is acceptable? why not?

my boyfriends mom didn't speak to me or him for weeks! it lead me into a deep spiral of emotions and more guilt and she still makes her points on the face she doesn't like abortions

That’s a MIL problem.

No one is arbiter of what’s “acceptable” in your reproductive life, or anyone else’s. Why are you taking this on board? She sounds poisonous and you sound flattened.

flattened?

Yes. A bit steam rollered.

IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER.

If you are ready to have a baby have one. If you aren't, don't. Stop listening to other people.

I hope it works out for you

@battleax I see now thank you for the reply & to the other reply thank you so much!

I don't think the question has anything to with abortion OP. I think the question is whether YOU are ready to have a baby. Whether YOU are having a baby for the right reasons. Whether YOU are emotionally capable to handle whatever comes your way.

Honestly, I think you can benefit from some counselling before you fall pregnant again. Make the effort to be in a good, solid and healthy headspace FOR your future child/children

I won't be happy till I see those two lines its honestly so difficult to just balance out

www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/help/
www.supernanny.co.uk/Advice/-/Pregnancy-and-Birth/-/Pregnancy-by-trimester/Hyperemesis-Gravidarum-a-personal-story-.aspx
You were let down by your lack of support! Please don’t feel guilty however do research and find support there are Facebook groups too, get a support network in place before ttc xxx

@ladyodd thank you :) x

@XxChlozxz - maybe you should look into counselling to help you deal with your grief. You obviously also need medical support and expertise for any future pregnancy. Could you ask your gp for referrals?

I would also avoid your boyfriend's mother. You don't need that type of behaviour.

@theymademejoin thank you x