Urrgghhh....we haven't spoken since yesterday after an argument over money. He works, I gave up my job a couple of months ago to be around more for our sick child. Mutual agreement. Husband not happy with how much money I spent. His money he said!!! He has an issue with the tenancy on our home being in my name only and now and then he gets a bee in his bonnet about it and asks to go on it. We did split up a couple of years ago and he refused to move out so it went to court hence the tenancy going in my sole name. We got back together when our child got sick. We've been together 22 years and it's always the same old story. Any way he spends every weekend drinking in the garden and having a BBQ for one as I don't like BBQ's or drinking excessively. And he plays the most crap music in the garden....its embarrassing. I just asked him to turn it down and got 2 fingers!!!!! I'm happy to go back to a joint tenancy but it's all the other stuff that's making me hate him ever so slightly now! Who is being unreasonable?