OP I’ve had a quick skim and see you’re asking because you’re looking ahead to your own birth.
Please try not to worry. We did hypnobirthing classes and planned a home birth, and I was really worried about intervention. I’d also been practising the ‘brains’ checklist in case we felt pushed into decisions by medics, and had sort of picked up from my reading and hypnobirthing that we’d have to fight for a relatively undisturbed physiological birth.
I really regret wasting time worrying.
We induced at 40+15, because it felt like time, but every professional who looked after us in the hospital was supportive of our wishes and went out of their way to facilitate as calm, uninterrupted experience as possible. When it became clear after 14 hours of labour and 2 of pushing that we really did need help to deliver my son safely, everything was explained clearly and respectfully, and I was given the opportunity for informed consent.
And most importantly, once I was actually giving birth, I realised I did not give one single fuck that I had an instrumental delivery in theatre under epidural rather than breathing him out by myself. All I cared about was meeting a healthy happy baby.
It was a big relief to realise how little the details would matter to me, and made me a bit fed up with the suggestion I picked up from my hypnobirthing teacher that intervention is always bad, and medical professionals don’t support natural birth (in my experience that’s exactly what they want to see too; we were collaborators not opponents). I was also really grateful for intervention when we needed it as I think I’d be a bereaved mother or in the ground without it. And living motherhood of a living baby is an utter joy.