To think parents like this need a reality check.

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My DS has asd and under no circumstances do I think he is an angel because he can be a manipulative little shit but he’s been having trouble with one of the boys at school, they had been friends for years and then all of a sudden he started being a little git towards my son and others. Funny thing was it wasn’t even my son who told me but some of his other friends. This has been going on now for a year despite me mentioning it to the teacher, nothing seems to be done. My son has his little group of best friends, is friendly with everyone but tends to segregate himself because sometimes he prefers to be alone. Yesterday was another prime example of him annoying my son causing him to have a meltdown and actually hurt some of his friends. The thing is he does it when no teachers are nearby so then when my son does react he acts like the victim. ( I’ve been told by my sons friends)
The problem I have is his mum thinks he is a little angel, the sun shines out of his ass and he can do no wrong. Makes out like he’s always innocent. He has no specific friends and try’s to hang around with people but they can’t put up with him. AIBU to think that parents like this especially when they’ve been told be s3veral people what havoc her son causes, need a reality check, that with eveidence right in front of them and they pull the blinders on.

They are more aware now after my DP called them as they hadn’t notified us of the situation which is what was agreed if he has a me,tdown. They have 2 senco, but the one that he is closest with only works Monday to weds. We have meeting with them in 2 weeks now they have the official funding, so I will bring the other boy up and make sure they know they need to keep an eye out. He doesn’t have SEN he’s just a little ship purely because his mum lets him get away with everything

Sadly you get s couple like that in every class. I was a TA and I could never understand how these kids almost always pulled the wool over the teacher's eyes. I'd see kids do those low level things to wind up kids with asd in the playground but the asd pupil who reacted would be the one told. The ones who wound him up would get away with it.

Keep a diary of events - times, places, and then escalate it beyond the headmaster. school governers / Academies will then be more likely to support you. It seems the school doesn’t have adequate supervision during breaks.