For reasons I won't go into, my brother (age 50) has nowhere to live for the next few weeks. He's able to stay with friends etc near where he lives but is stuck for this weekend so I said he could stay with us Fri - Sun. I've had 1 weeks' notice.
He is however extremely lazy. He's never, to my knowledge, cooked a meal in his life and lives permanently on shop bought sandwiches, pasties, takeaways etc. He is morbidly obese as a result which does make getting around difficult. However, I am rushed off my feet with 2 LOs at the best of times and to have to provide 3 meals a day plus clearing up for an extra adult doesn't exactly fill me with joy. We're not particularly close though we do text each other most days. We have nothing in common.
I also have plans for the weekend with my LOs which might not be his cup of tea so don't want to cancel. I'm thinking as he's a grown man he could sort out most of his own food and entertain himself? He is capable of walking to the local shop as it's what he does most days where he lives anyway.
I don't want him to think I'm ignoring him but my weekends spending quality time with with LOs are very important to me. AIBU?