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To wonder if kids whose pics have been shared on social media will mind as they become conscious teens/adults?

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MandaraSugar · 20/06/2018 09:23

Went on GDPR training yesterday and all morning been thinking about privacy from kids' point of view (or they view they may develop as they mature)...

Thinking about posting pictures of our children/young relatives/friends children (with friends permission of course) on open social media profiles - when these young people grow up, will they mind pictures of them being out in cyberspace? Or do you think it will be so commonplace by then they won't think twice about it?

I screen grab pictures I like - someone's hairstyle, necklace, hat etc on open profiles (mostly from Instagram, rather than Facebook) but could easily make a whole album of children from birth-aged 8,9,10 of people on my Friends list. As a parent/guardian, is the decision with us to put pictures of them online or wait for them to be old enough to decide? I know lots of people have privacy settings set up so only their Friends list sees them, so not this group - as you could argue this is no different to emailing/sending in the post a picture of kids to relatives/friends to keep. Should we wait until these babies/young people reach (is it 13 you can legally join Facebook? Not sure about other social media?) a certain age and if they want to set up their own profile and upload pictures they can?

If the novelty of social media wears off, in the sense of sharing your family life, when these children become adults, will it be impossible for them not to leave a social media footprint as these pictures have already been out there for x no of years, beyond their control?

OP posts:
Camomila · 20/06/2018 09:28

I do share photos of DS on social media but I'm mindful of this so I only put 'nice' ones up where he's dressed, smiling, not covered in food, not poorly etc...same as if he was an adult.

Most photos are of him and DH or me on a day out so I think it'd be odder to exclude him from saying cheese by the big mountain/historic thing etc.

(I might privately msg grumpy etc photos to my DM or to my mum friends but they all know/love DS!)

Camomila · 20/06/2018 09:29

YY to only having friends seeing DS on fb, and they are all rl friends/extended family too.

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